Fat Women Belong In Every Genre

I don’t care what y’all say. We belong in every trope and genre. We should have space in the fictional world. I hate how folks tend to erase our existence. I started reading a certain paranormal series and all the FMCs HAD to be fit and thin to become a mate. This turned me off. Because women come in ALLL shapes and sizes. And they should be represented. As an author, I understand, we are free to write what we want.

I know that.

And as readers, we are free to read (or not) whatever we want.

My issue here is not with the author, it’s with how thin and fat bodies are portrayed. Good vs Evil. It’s absolutely INFURIATING. Please, give me a good reason why. Beyond what others perceive as beautiful and what society has told you is an acceptable physique, why must a character be thin? Why?

This is why we write and are so vocal about body-positive representation. They want us to sit in a corner and be friends who never get the guy/girl/them. They’d rather we stay the funny fat friend and nothing more. I love how self-publishing has given us the freedom to be loud and happy.

Trad pubs hate footing the bill for us. Nowadays, since the movement is over and done (money-wise). They’re back to sneering at fat main characters. Well, I say fuck them and anyone else who thinks we don’t belong in certain genres.

FAT FMCs ARE ALLOWED TO EXIST IN A MIDDLE EARTH-DYSTOPIAN-WESTERN-RGENECY ROMANCE-SEASIDE-SCIFI ALIEN-HORROR BOOKS DAMN IT!

To Be Grown and Queer

In my youth, I was so worried about what my bible carrying father would do to me if he found out I was bi. I played the straight role for more than half my life. Though, my choice in attire had folks assuming I was a lesbian.
Because you know, keeping shit androgynous instantly makes someone queer.
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When I was ten years old, I watched as a family member was shunned and condemned by relatives after coming out. Their cruelty made a lasting impression. My own father stopped talking to this person and had nothing but terrible things to say about them.
Can you imagine how scared I was? His reaction caused me to withdraw and cower. I pushed my queerness down and forced myself into a box I never fit in.
It was rough for many years. I am proud to say I have gotten over and grown out of that hellish religious trauma.
Three immediate family members still don’t know I’m bisexual. Yes, one being my father. The other two, I just don’t care enough to tell them. I know how they’d take it and I don’t need that, type of negativity in my life.
Fuck that, I don’t want a lecture, I don’t need to be read scriptures that gave me nightmares as a child. I don’t need their opinions or upturned noses.
We’re not obligated to disclose our sexuality. You don’t have to tell a soul. I live in my truth daily. I don’t need their validation or support, because I have learned to love and accept myself.
Those of y’all who know, KNOW. Growing up in a Baptist environment will have you hating yourself and projecting. This is a struggle! I don’t withhold this information due to shame, no.
I JUST DON’T CARE ANYMORE.
I’ve reached a certain age where I truly don’t give damn. I look at my reflection and smile. I love her. I love this woman. I love who she is and what she has done and will do.
I’ll be damned to let anybody badmouth me for extending myself grace and love. You cannot let them steal your joy!

Daily writing prompt

What was the last live performance you saw?

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The Backstreet Boys! It was a dream come true. They kicked off their world tour in Vegas. My sister bought the first few tickets and surprised me. I cried. I’ve loved that boy band for nearly years.

Killing the Art of Sexual Intimacy

Puritan culture is going to kill the arts. Sterility is what they seek and I loathe it. To say this generation is more sexual than the last is not only ignorant but false. To speak on sex in novels without having any knowledge of old works of fiction is absurd. I can understand if you’ve read every book on planet earth and have facts to back your claims. Then I’d say good day, sir, ma’am, ENBY you have stunned and stumped me.

But nah! Hell nah.
Most who recite these points on intimacy in literature and film haven’t read enough. They haven’t researched enough or cared to. They have a ‘me’ mentality about it. ‘I don’t like this so I don’t think it’s called for’. SAD! Please, go sit down and open a book which has what you crave within those pages.
There are too many novels and movies out there w/out sex for them to complain and gripe. If you wanna nitpick about the resurgence of sexuality, genitalia and nudity then fine! Has if ever occurred to them, some may be squeezing in these sex scenes out of spite?!
I have written my fair share of sex scenes because of this. I have made certain in my recent works to make those characters fuck! I can’t take a world filled with this evangelical approach to all things linked to passion and carnality.
Sex will sell! Nothing you can do will stop it. Even if these bible thumping Neanderthals ban erotica and ‘displays of intercourse’ it won’t put an end to this.
Sex and art have ALWAYS been and will always BE one!

New Shorts

Once a week, I will post a new short story. Each short will come in at around 5-10k. A good portion will be romance. Sub-genre? Who knows. I don’t. As a panster, I have no clue what will come from the prompts I use until I start writing. Even then, it’s still up in the air. Typically, a character will expose themselves within minut4es, but that’s all I have to go on. What the story will be about strongly depends on the season. Yes, a large portion will be romance, but not all. I enjoy horror, fantasy, domestic thrillers, westerns and sci-fi. This will be my way of branching out, so bear with me as I explore genres I love, but have never dared to write.

CW: I write dark stories. Expect violence, explicit language, sex, gore, monster fucking, alcoholism, death, grief, murder and certain depictions of abuse. I WILL NEVER SHOW SA ON PAGE! That’s a hard boundary for me as a reader and a writer.

PSA: I WILL NEVER USE AI. I HAVE BEEN WRITING SINCE I WAS NINE YEARS OLD AND WILL NEVER, EVER, SUPPORT THE USE OF AI IN LITERATURE.

Daily writing prompt

What could you do more of?

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Watch Movies

For as long as I can remember, I’ve loved film. I recall watching movies with everyone. It was something my entire family loved to do. My grandmother, grandfather, mom, dad, siblings, and uncles. That was our thing during holidays and birthdays. As I grew older, film became more than a form of entertainment, they transformed into a lifeline and an escape during times of peril. During the height of my depression as a young adult and a DV victim.

I’ve found movies comforting for so long and I still love them, but I don’t watch them as much as I used to. Writing has taken most of my time. I’m not complaining about that, it’s my second passion. However, I wanna get back to the good old days. Laying up, eating snacks and cramming three/four films into my day.

Movies have brought me joy, peace and an escape during the darkest seasons of my life. The same can be said about books, Fiction draws my attention like nothing else. And even if the film is based on a true story, I am still immersed in another world that’s not, reality. I love film so much and I have fallen behind. Which is why I have reserved weekends for film/tv.

No writing whatsoever on weekends.

A Win Is a Win

Sometimes it’s incredibly hard to maintain positivity as a writer when there are so many roadblocks. Whether it be publishing issues, editing, or life in general. Things can seem quite overwhelming and dim, but I tell you what? Your stories are worth every hard hour spent drafting and editing.

Those long days when self-publishing seems impossible will pay off. Today, tomorrow, next year. Doesn’t matter. Point is, if you don’t quit, you’ll succeed. And honey, SUCCESS is you killing your word goal for the day. It’s finishing your cover; completing that last round of edits. Hell, SUCCESS is finishing the book.

NOT EVERYONE DOES.

Success looks different for everyone. Every step in your author journey is a success. Triumph is when you press PUBLISH, it’s when the first review comes through. What it says? Who cares! Take those small successes and claim the win, love. You’ve committed yourself this extremely personal endeavor and created something gorgeous. This path can be arduous, solitary and beautiful. Creating worlds is our thing, it’s what we do. It’s what we love! Remember why you’re doing this. When impossibilities stack, take a break and breathe.

Let your imagination run, then follow it. 💜🧡

“You never fail until you stop trying.”
Albert Einstein

A Break from the Norm

Oh my! I have had quite the writing day. I started at 4:30 and ended at 2.6k! Every day isn’t so great and that’s okay. Yesterday was a bust, and I don’t care. This book was fun to write. I’d be on schedule if I kept to the 40k goal, but I’ll be going over by 20k.
Listen, it’s still a feat for me. At 60k this is the shortest novel I’ve ever written. When you’re used to 100k+ this feels like a snippet. But again, it was fun. And I plan on writing another cozy, low-stakes novel at some point. There was no pressure. A TINY external conflict, autumn vibes and romance.
The spice factor sits around 2/5. Normally I keep things piping hot at 4-5/5. Three to five sex scenes. Two quickies and three sessions are where I most comfortable. My WIP had none of that, but it feels good. The amount of sex and intimacy fits the story. Do I miss the nasty, thigh soaking sex scenes and drama? Yes, yes, I do.
I will not give up my high stakes/spice, thick plot books. I can’t quit gritty paranormal romance, but I’ll return to these cute, fluffy waters at least once a year. If only to give my dark mind a break for a spell.

“I am enough of an artist to draw freely upon my imagination. Imagination is more important than knowledge. Knowledge is limited. Imagination encircles the world.”
Albert Einstein

Learning Curve

Helloooo starshine! With my writing day complete I can breathe easier. I figured this cozy 50k fantasy romance would teach me a few things and I was right.
I’m learning to stick my goals and make them count. For years I’ve tackled huuuuge projects. Novels with a 90k+ WC. I’m talking high stakes paranormal romance/urban fantasy series with extensive world building.
I’m used to detail. Where, when, why and how. Thick plots with lengthy backstories. Worldbuilding is an integral part of any story, but this short, low plot adventure has taught me to keep those details short and sweet. Light and tight has been a challenge, no lie. From a long writers pov, this is an excruciating lesson.
I don’t have a 90k words to play with. Typing ‘the end’ at around 45k seems unfathomable. I keep thinking, ‘I’m missing something, this is too short, it’s too fast, not enough backstory, what about this or that’. But I’m learning here, this is a fun journey, though nerve wracking at times.
Right now! I’m going to watch the Mandalorian and Ahsoka while enjoying sticks of cheese! I hope y’all have had a wonderful day and are chilling!

“If there’s a book that you want to read, but it hasn’t been written yet, then you must write it.”
TONI Morrison

Conflict Is at the Root of Every Story

Some who enjoy external will find low stakes a bore. I love low or high, it doesn’t matter to me. But I will say, after reading cozies for a long time. even they, have some form of conflict. Without the internal struggle there’d be nothing. What is this character’s goal in life and how will they get there? What’s stopping them from getting it?

Sally wants to bake bread. She kneads a lump of dough until her hands hurt. Satisfied, Sally throws it into the oven.

Cool. But you know what would be awesome? Conflict.

Sally opened the flour jar and gasped. She was out. With only pennies to her name, she couldn’t afford much else. Most nights all she had was a warm loaf of bread to fill her belly. A five-mile hike to the market was her only option, and quite risky with an approaching snowstorm.

WILL SALLY STARVE TO DEATH OR RISK HER LIFE?

Will she get injured? Will a charming passerby help her, or will she perish in a blizzard?! I don’t know, but I kinda wanna find out.